Be Proactive

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People are either proactive or reactive

Reactive people don’t plan , They waste time on unproductive activities

They often blame others or events for their failure

If you’re proactive, you focus on preparing

If you’re reactive, you end up focusing on repairing.

John C Maxwell

Proactive people are reactive ahead of time

They are organised , innovative and committed not passively observing

They simply prepare for tomorrow’s work today

The Proactive man is a fast moving train en route for greatness

He creates road map of success while others wait to be told what to do

Pro-activity is creativity

Every creative design emanates from a proactive mind

The outside is a reflection of the inside where proactive thoughts are formed

The proactive soul stands tall in iridescent and ombre

Striking a pose on the runway with great sense of style

Confident with eyes fixed on the prize while ‘reactive folks’ observes

Proactive soul defied mediocrity while the reactive watches and day dream

God installed the Apps of creativity in the brain

It takes pro activity to launch your creativity

Everything that was ever invented stems from the human imagination

The future you anticipate stems from the inside

create it , don’t wait for others

Be Proactive

Happy 2018

Dr Stoph @realstoph



dream Big

Burj Al Arab is one of the world’s only two ‘7’ star hotels.

It is shaped like a sail and stands on an artificial island

Surprisingly , the first material for its construction was neither concrete nor steel but a

potent dream


Everything is a product of someone’s dream

All men of actions are dreamers

Dreams transform into thoughts and thoughts result in action

So work today to change tomorrow


The poorest person in the world is a man without dreams      Myles Munroe


Activate your dream like Dr Martin Luther King and don’t give up on it

Even in the midst of life trials

Don’t lose your confidence

When you believe your dreams, it begins to attracts its own resources


Dream is not that which you see in sleep, your dream is something that does not let you  sleep     Dr Avul Pakir J Abdulkalam


A great dream begins with a dreamer

If you can dream it, you can do it

God gave you a dream that cannot die

Your dream will survive


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They dont care!

You said….

I ‘ m hurting ,  feel like drowning , having suicidal thoughts
I ‘m tired of everything
They wont help me
No one to encourage me

She said…..

He left me with without a good bye
I cried myself to sleep most times
I cant encourage ‘me’ to smile again

They said…..

Things look difficult , cant find job , the future is bleak
Wondering if there ‘ll ever be a light at the end of the tunnel
Nobody to encourage us
Life means pain ?
We feel like cars in reverse motion!

Take a look at the reality..

Like a plant , the root grow downwards ( reverse motion ) to anchor the seed , search for food and nutrient from the soil . The shoot starts growing upwards towards light. The product is fresh leaves

Look up!

The strenght from within the soul comes from God
Your soul is a soil that contains nutrients , enzymes and metabolites for growth

Man is a measure of his mind , so delete whatever depresses you

You dont drown by falling in the water, you drown by staying there

Dont get bitter, get better
Dont get beaten in the battle , get better

An Encourager is one who inspires with courage and I dont have to wait for people to perform that task for me, so I encourage me always

Wherever you go no matter what the weather, always bring your own sunshine…Anthony J D’Angelo
Love youself when no one can , encourage yourself

The true symbol of Democracy in Africa ‘ Nelson Mandela’ encouraged himself with the classic poem ‘ invictus’  even while serving 27 years imprisonment

Encouragement should come from inside
Encourage yourself via little ways
You must dance to your music
Encourage yourself
Find strength and re-ignite your passion
Every day bring new choices
I encourage me


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Fear and faith cannot occupy the same space , you must invite one

Hope is a feeling of expectation and  desire for a particular thing to happen.

Grounds for believing that something good may happen

Hm…….(deep breath)

Sometimes what you desire seems to be impossible

You see it in a distance

But with so much resistance

‘We must accept finite disappointment, 
but never lose infinite hope’  Martin luther

Perhaps, you are on a road trip and the warning light for empty tank pops up

Telling you to STOP!


HOPE is your ‘ fuel reserve tank

moving  the car to the nearest gas station for a refill , so you don’t have to terminate the journey to reach the TOP

Hope means looking forward always,

Feeling breathless but got reserve oxygen

Not giving up

Not quitting

Loving💖and being happy again

for though the righteous fall seven times, they rise again,

Prov 24:16


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Digital Love

First thing in the morning, 
last thing in the evening

Glued to phones, tablets and PC’s . 

Kisses , hugs and sex emojis to ignite romance💓

Thrilled by the likes and comments on social media

Yet folks bleed for true love!

Many are love lorn and see digital love as life saver

Mali music wrote
Love ain’t here no more, it’s gone away

Now the love is digital and it ain’t the same’

Everybody think they need that digital love

Chatting and engaging her via online calls for several hours but wont relate well physically
Cracking up his baby with allurement while privately message you  for an affair of the heart

Gosh! charmed by his text , you make a ‘smile that can make an elephant fly’

Of course its digital love life , a ‘ digital feeling’

Are you for real?
The 21st century is undeniably digital

However, the heart needs to be palpated physically

LOVE is a 4 letter word spelt GIVE

Sacrifice quality time to see the heaven in the eyes of the ‘special one’ and the Sun in her smile

Don’t stop at tweeting about orphans and vulnerable children

Reach out to them physically

Study digitally but be connected to God spiritually

Dr Stoph

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